When someone does not understand your pain, you can either ignore or judge that person, or respond like Pat does in the film “Silver Linings Playbook”.

Some people believe that the world is a stage and that it has been put up for them to perform. I know many of these people. Unfortunately not everyone has had a chance to change and even if they had received one, they did not recognise it. 

Who is acting with discernment and wisdom? Pat’s brother struts about holding a list of his fortunes, Pat goes beyond earthly weaknesses and connects with the deep love he feels towards his brother.

Over time, I have come to the conclusion that what annoys us in others is a great opportunity to discover our limits:

Do those who show off annoy you? Perhaps you should show off a little more. 

Do people who talk too much annoy you? Maybe you need to talk a little more. Do you have doubts about people who speak too little? Maybe you should talk less and listen more.

Does it annoy you when people are superficial? Maybe you need to take life less seriously.

So what would you like for others, is “overly” present in your life and perhaps should be moderated. It certainly will not be true in all circumstances, but taking this into consideration has made ​​me get to know myself better.

In any case, if you want to take a shortcut and immediately connect yourself with the “highest” part of you, you make a quantum leap and go beyond all the possible positive emotions.

You can achieve any goal you want, you can find the “positive side” of everything if it will guide you to the “love vibration“.

I feel nothing but love for you brother” is a phrase to be addressed to those you find on your path. For some time, on the social networks, this sentence has been often posted: “Every person you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be nice. Always.” I really like it.

I think that anyone who flaunts all his successes, all his purchases and all his “illusions” (because we are talking about illusions in this case) is almost certainly a person who has greater need of love.


Buy the film

Buy the recommended book

"Silver Linings Playbook" A film by David O. Russell with Bradley Cooper, Jennifer Lawrence. USA, 2012

"The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationships" by Don Miguel Ruiz

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